The comments: "You're not really gay." "You're just confused/stuck." "You're more likely to cheat." "You'll make a choice eventually." "It's just a phase."Those always make them feel down and upset.
What the toughest things bis have ever experienced?There are some answers.
Being bullied by some people who do not even know what being bisexual is.
"My mom is one of those people who don't understand why people of the same sex would be together, and neither does my Dad.
Having to come out to older generations. They understand what being gay is (kind of), but bisexuality is a whole new concept to a lot of them. I haven't even told my parents in fear of explaining it incorrectly to them."
"Hypersexualization of bisexual women and sexual harassment if you come out publicly. I could notice as some strange silence in between my statement of bisexuality and their reactions. And the reactions were:“Don’t worry, aren’t we all,” or just the eyes rolling in what seemed as: “Poor little thing, she seems so confused.” I was mostly in the company of my friends who in such situations usually interrupted the conversation or dragged me away.
"The toughest thing is probably not feeling like you have a community. I feel too queer for the straight community, but too straight for the lgbtq community. Very few people jump to defend bisexuality when we are misrepresented because only bisexuals seem to know that we are being misrepresented and it feels like no one really wants to know or understand us."
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