Dear Straight Girls

who say “I wish I was a lesbian”: do you have any idea how insensitive that is? the shame girls who like girls grow up feeling, the secret that eats away at us when we can’t be open about who we’re in love with, which is supposed to be a happy thing, because we’re afraid our friends and family will turn their backs on us. I know you think it’s fun and cute that we get to do “girl stuff” together but it is incredibly frustrating the way you take the struggle of living in a homophobic world so lightly. society is barely just taking steps to protect our rights and in many countries in the world, we can’t even hold hands without being thrown into prison for “disseminating gay propaganda” (Russia). We didn’t choose to be this way but we should feel nothing but happiness about who we are, we want to have the ability to be proud about the person we love just like straight people can, without having to look around before kissing our partners on the cheek because we’re terrified of being outed to family members or being harassed by straight men on the street.Half straight and half gay is not accepted always. Please just be more mindful of the things you say, because every single time I hear that it makes me cringe.

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Ways To Come Out

Have you ever been misunderstood of your sexuality?Have you ever been afraid of coming out?I think it must have confused many gays,lesbians,bisexuals and other lgbt people before.But as time going on,there are more and more open-minded people,and homosexual,bisexual and other transgender are accepted more.And many bi-curious show up.But sometimes,even to find a people as them is not easy,if not tell,you may not figure out who is lgbt. And many people may not be aware of their real sexuality,so they need try to explore it.

Coming out may be a good way to distinguish them,but sometimes especially when people around you are not that open-minded,it may be not easy to do so.And in some people's eyes,it's weird to see men seeking men and women seeking women when they are just pursuing their happiness.

Coming out to friends and family

It is a confusing and daunting prospect for some people since, for some people, there’s still a stigma attached to certain labels. Aside from the potential risks some people may face, it’s often a question of how you should go about it. If you’ve got no ideas or are lacking some, you might find this useful.

"I used several ways to come out. Most of the time I simply told the person or it was brought up casually in a conversation. Since all the important people in my life know now, I am more blase about it. There’s always a point in your life when you simply give up hiding things. Whether that’s something like admitting that you secretly have Britney Spears posters in your room or whether you have some bigger, darker secret that’s hiding in your closet (pun intended), it is universally agreed that some things are ‘better out than in’."

Writing a note, letter or a posted note.

It’s a good way to come out if you are nervous or hesitant to. It’s fairly casual and it may be helpful if you feel that you cannot simply just say it.

Making a video.

Sometimes it’s easier to express what you like when you are not directly facing someone. This is particularly a good idea if you want to say this to someone who you do not see regularly, perhaps due to a long distance, or if you are very nervous about coming out.

Making a casual joke.

Puns are fantastic! If you can’t think of any, there’s always an abundance of puns on the Internet. This blog (x) is one of my favourites for puns. The other day, I used “I am 50% gay” as a way to come out. This obviously isn’t always a good way to come out but in that context, the person understood what I was trying to say.

Slipping it into a conversation.

Being casual normalises it more so if you want it to be undramatic, then you could consider this. Simply mentioning that you find someone attractive or you like someone of a different gender might allow you to come out without planning it extensively. A friend I have recently made did this and it was not only low-key but it got the message across nicely.

Asking a hypothetical question.

Dropping some hints is easier than being direct if you are nervous. It also works well if you are trying to come out to one person at a time. Asking hypothetical questions is good to open up a conversation. It’s best to do this at a time when the person in question is unoccupied.

Just say it.

Whether it’s having a serious conversation or simply saying “grandma, I’m bisexual”, being honest and open with people you care about is one of the best ways to come out. It shows you are proud and sure of your identity. If you are feeling brave and confident about coming out, this may be the best way to come out. It helps to be calm as it also doesn’t worry the other person.

End note: You should only think of coming out if you are ready to and you feel safe. DO NOT force yourself to. Your happiness and will is important!

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What A Bisexual Man Thinks About It

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Even though I've already come out and open about my sexuality to anyone who asks.
I've struggled with my sexuality since 7th grade.
I am currently a student in college.

I'm bisexual,right.

This means that I have the ability to possibly be attracted to two (“bi”) genders, or sometimes more (which may overlap into pansexuality, but I'm not getting into that). In my case, I can be attracted to biological females, nonbinary individuals, and I am still working out whether I am only romantically attracted to biological males, I'm not sure. See, still figuring things out.

But for some reason, people still think it concerns them and affects their lives whether or not a person is in the LGBTQ+ community.

Some of my least favorite things I've been told by people, directly and indirectly as well as intentionally and unintentionally.

-Bisexual people are unfaithful —I am one of the most faithful people I know. I cannot fathom being unfaithful in a relationship, knowing how that could hurt someone and ruin everything.

-Bisexuality isn't real —I exist, damn it. I am valid. Do not tell me I am not real. I am not invisible. How would you like to be told that you don't exist?

-Bisexual people will never be able to keep a relationship —thanks for that, so I'll die alone?

-Bisexuality is a phase —I've known I'm bisexual since I was 13 or 14. I've wondered here and there if I was gay, but no. I came to the conclusion years ago that I am bi, and that has yet to change. Long phase, huh?

-Bisexual people are confused —am I? That's weird. I don’t feel confused. Maybe you know more about me than I do, thanks very much. What would I do without you?

-“So you want both?” —no, I want someone. One person. Their gender doesn't matter. Bisexual is not synonymous with polymerise

-And the almighty —"Choose one" —How could I "choose"? If I could choose my sexuality, don't you think I'd choose to be straight? It would've made my life a hell of a lot easier, earlier in life and now. No, I can't choose who I'm attracted to. Sorry to burst your ignorant bubble.

The tough things bis met before

The existing of bisexual just like eating cream,some people only like vanilla and some people only like chocolate,and they just happen to like both.You should correctly treat them.
The comments: "You're not really gay." "You're just confused/stuck." "You're more likely to cheat." "You'll make a choice eventually." "It's just a phase."Those always make them feel down and upset.
What the toughest things bis have ever experienced?There are some answers.
Being bullied by some people who do not even know what being bisexual is.

"My mom is one of those people who don't understand why people of the same sex would be together, and neither does my Dad.
Having to come out to older generations. They understand what being gay is (kind of), but bisexuality is a whole new concept to a lot of them. I haven't even told my parents in fear of explaining it incorrectly to them."

"Hypersexualization of bisexual women and sexual harassment if you come out publicly. I could notice as some strange silence in between my statement of bisexuality and their reactions. And the reactions were:“Don’t worry, aren’t we all,” or just the eyes rolling in what seemed as: “Poor little thing, she seems so confused.” I was mostly in the company of my friends who in such situations usually interrupted the conversation or dragged me away. 

"The toughest thing is probably not feeling like you have a community. I feel too queer for the straight community, but too straight for the lgbtq community. Very few people jump to defend bisexuality when we are misrepresented because only bisexuals seem to know that we are being misrepresented and it feels like no one really wants to know or understand us."

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Proud of Being Bi

It's interesting to be bi,as you can experience love from both men and women,and have more choices to decide who will be your another half.That's wonderful!
But because of the misunderstanding from some people,plenty of bis are afraid of coming out.
Once you come out,you will find it so cozy to be yourself just like rebirth.You are free,you don't have limits to love.You are particular in the society with most heterosexual people,that's amazing!You will be able to appreciate the beauty in both women and men and be open-minded about all sexuality and preferences.It's very liberating to know that the love of your life can be anyone, and can come from anywhere and you are more excited to look forward to meeting that person (male or female).
You should be proud of yourself for finding out who you truly are. you can walk outside and literally scream "I AM PROUD OF WHO I AM AND NOBODY CAN CHANGE THAT!".