Voice of A Bisexual Woman

Honestly I can’t really say I came out because I never felt like I was in? I’ve liked girls since 2nd grade, boys around 5th or 6th grade. I liked girls first, I didn’t think it was a big deal,lesbian was ok for me. I remember learning the term bisexual in 6th grade and saying that was what I was, which I still am now. I wasn’t confused, I wasn’t raised to believe in heteronormative, I wasn’t “brainwashed straight” at a young age. I was around TV shows with straight couples, and family and family friends who were straight, but I didn’t process that as the norm. To me, the norm was that’s who they love. I knew that girls could like girls, boys could like boys, or any can like any. I knew since I was 7. Hell I knew I was trans when I was that young. I didn’t like the term tomboy because it felt like an insult. That I acted like a boy because that’s what I felt I was, but they still say I’m a girl. It was an insult to me that they would be so ignorant to keep claiming I’m a girl and “just being a tomboy” when I wanted everyone to think of me as who I was inside, not outside. I was also around a very homophobic father and an “I don’t care as long as they keep it to themselves and know what they’re getting into” mother and sister. My father dismissed the fact I’ve known since I was 7 and doesn’t want me dead for being open about it. My mother just hopes I’m happy though she prefers I marry a man. My sister doesn’t care because it’s not her place to meddle in. I’ve learned to ignore them all and keep to myself, especially my dad. So I guess I never really was in, because I never felt like I had to come out. I was never scared to openly admit it, I suppose. I hope other kids and teens grow up feeling the same, not feeling scared to be themselves, and never being afraid of people judging them, especially their own parents/family. I hope kids and teens grow up with understanding parents so that when they do openly say what they are, they don’t feel scared about being disowned or dismissed as confusion. That the parent understands that’s just who they are, even if they disagree with it, and all they ask is your acceptance. It’s a long way to go until that day will come.

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An Exploring of Sexuality

Being bisexual to me is feeling like I’m lying to my friends and family because I’m not straight like they think I am, but not feeling like I have the right to “come out” because I’m not gay enough.

It’s like the world thinks “straight passing privilege” is a good thing. I don’t want people to think I’m straight because that’s not accurate. But I feel like the world is telling me, “No, you don’t experience anywhere near the same oppression as gay people, so you don’t have anything to complain about. You’ve got no reason to make a fuss about your sexuality. If you were REALLY queer you could come out, but you’re only half gay. Don’t take the spotlight away from the important issues.”

I remember when I was in middle school and my best friend’s mom was talking about her niece, who liked both men and women sexually. She spoke in a negative tone about it, saying things like, “She’s just trying to shake things up. You’re one or the other. There is no both.” This coming from a woman who made it a point to teach her kids acceptance of others and tolerance of homosexuality. This really stuck with me, because in that moment I felt like the little progress I had made to discovery my sexuality was thwarted. I thought, “Then I must be a gay, because I do experience attraction to men.” Obviously, not the full story.

This made me feel like an impostor for years. If I’m a gay, why do I have a crush on that girl? I must actually be straight. But if I’m straight, why do I want to ask that boy out?

Now that I’m older and I’ve dated both men and women, I can emphatically say that my friend’s mom was right, there is no “both.”

This is because there are more than two sexualities!

I am not a mixture of gay and straight. I am one thing: bisexual.

I am real.

I am sure.

I won’t “decide eventually” because it was never a decision in the first place. If you know that gay people don’t choose to be born gay, why would you think that bisexual people will choose a sexuality?

Why do I feel like I have to be gay to come out as anything but straight?


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The tough things bis met before

The existing of bisexual just like eating cream,some people only like vanilla and some people only like chocolate,and they just happen to like both.You should correctly treat them.
The comments: "You're not really gay." "You're just confused/stuck." "You're more likely to cheat." "You'll make a choice eventually." "It's just a phase."Those always make them feel down and upset.
What the toughest things bis have ever experienced?There are some answers.
Being bullied by some people who do not even know what being bisexual is.

"My mom is one of those people who don't understand why people of the same sex would be together, and neither does my Dad.
Having to come out to older generations. They understand what being gay is (kind of), but bisexuality is a whole new concept to a lot of them. I haven't even told my parents in fear of explaining it incorrectly to them."

"Hypersexualization of bisexual women and sexual harassment if you come out publicly. I could notice as some strange silence in between my statement of bisexuality and their reactions. And the reactions were:“Don’t worry, aren’t we all,” or just the eyes rolling in what seemed as: “Poor little thing, she seems so confused.” I was mostly in the company of my friends who in such situations usually interrupted the conversation or dragged me away. 

"The toughest thing is probably not feeling like you have a community. I feel too queer for the straight community, but too straight for the lgbtq community. Very few people jump to defend bisexuality when we are misrepresented because only bisexuals seem to know that we are being misrepresented and it feels like no one really wants to know or understand us."

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Proud of Being Bi

It's interesting to be bi,as you can experience love from both men and women,and have more choices to decide who will be your another half.That's wonderful!
But because of the misunderstanding from some people,plenty of bis are afraid of coming out.
Once you come out,you will find it so cozy to be yourself just like rebirth.You are free,you don't have limits to love.You are particular in the society with most heterosexual people,that's amazing!You will be able to appreciate the beauty in both women and men and be open-minded about all sexuality and preferences.It's very liberating to know that the love of your life can be anyone, and can come from anywhere and you are more excited to look forward to meeting that person (male or female).
You should be proud of yourself for finding out who you truly are. you can walk outside and literally scream "I AM PROUD OF WHO I AM AND NOBODY CAN CHANGE THAT!".

Meet bi,date with bi,and live with bi

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Dating with bi,you will be excited as bi, but if you're not bi,you needn't to worry,you may have a good time with him/her.Bi just love both men and women,but it doesn't mean they're promiscuous,they just love one without considering his/her gender,so if they love you,they're clearly love.In their world,love is love.
Because of their tough way of being bi,they need more understanding and cares from you.Once you choose them as companion,just love them as they do.
Bi couples may be closer,because they love each other more than the same interest and the same topic，but true love.The most important thing to combine them is love,they love each other just because they want to,instead of they should as their parents think or most people do that.
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Bi need happiness

Nowadays,it is more and more common to hear something about lesbian and gay,but there are some people called bisexual showed up besides.It is not as general as straight people,so they are always be looked down upon.But they are ordinary people too,they need to love and be loved,they have the right to be respected.And because of their difference between normal people in sexuality,they always can't find a satisfied lover with them,they even can't have a good date.We shouldn't stop their matching with others,and we should make a private space for them,they need happiness also.I found a good place for them,they can date with the guys they like,and find a fitable one to live together.

It's not bad to be a bi

For bisexual people,the ignorance, judgment and jokes always around them.Not much people can understand them,especially in some country,some people even think it unnormal to be a bi.So there are many bi always feel lonely and upset.It happens that once a bisexual people wanna find a date, he just wants to have a serious relationship,but it's not as easy as straight people.
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Bi women's annoyance

Bisexual women always have it rough. Lesbians do not that believe them even may be scared of them, guys don't treat them well even don't take their interest in them seriously, and their parents think they're still going to end up with a dude. But they may always doubt "What if she leaves me for a guy?" "What if she always feels like she's missing something?" They are usually confused.That if they're in a committed relationship their sexuality means absolutely nothing beyond the fact that it allows them to be attracted to whomever they're dating.