It Is Not Terrible To Be Bisexual

Bisexual is not terrible. According to a friend, "you are half of all the people, but I am the one who is in the whole." If your partner happens to be a bisexual, in fact, you should feel lucky: he or she has so many choices, but he /she still only chooses you, you are obviously more important than the average person for him/her.

Bisexual is a sexual orientation, they can not only love a man, but also love a woman . It is not a thing to have their own identity. In other words, the bisexual people, their own identity, can be a man, as well as a woman, can also be bisexual, but also other more. According to this year's the gender options inside of updated face book, people on their own identity, you can have as many as 56 choices. It does not include the gay, lesbian or bisexual,and so on.

Because you like what kind of person, not means you are what kind of person. You can identify yourself as a man who like a woman, or a man, or both men and women, or to any person are not consistent. Facebook of this approach, it sounds a bit complicated, so that a sudden fall into chaos. But why not a liberation for those who have not been able to classify themselves as "men" or "women".


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Voice of A Bisexual Woman

Honestly I can’t really say I came out because I never felt like I was in? I’ve liked girls since 2nd grade, boys around 5th or 6th grade. I liked girls first, I didn’t think it was a big deal,lesbian was ok for me. I remember learning the term bisexual in 6th grade and saying that was what I was, which I still am now. I wasn’t confused, I wasn’t raised to believe in heteronormative, I wasn’t “brainwashed straight” at a young age. I was around TV shows with straight couples, and family and family friends who were straight, but I didn’t process that as the norm. To me, the norm was that’s who they love. I knew that girls could like girls, boys could like boys, or any can like any. I knew since I was 7. Hell I knew I was trans when I was that young. I didn’t like the term tomboy because it felt like an insult. That I acted like a boy because that’s what I felt I was, but they still say I’m a girl. It was an insult to me that they would be so ignorant to keep claiming I’m a girl and “just being a tomboy” when I wanted everyone to think of me as who I was inside, not outside. I was also around a very homophobic father and an “I don’t care as long as they keep it to themselves and know what they’re getting into” mother and sister. My father dismissed the fact I’ve known since I was 7 and doesn’t want me dead for being open about it. My mother just hopes I’m happy though she prefers I marry a man. My sister doesn’t care because it’s not her place to meddle in. I’ve learned to ignore them all and keep to myself, especially my dad. So I guess I never really was in, because I never felt like I had to come out. I was never scared to openly admit it, I suppose. I hope other kids and teens grow up feeling the same, not feeling scared to be themselves, and never being afraid of people judging them, especially their own parents/family. I hope kids and teens grow up with understanding parents so that when they do openly say what they are, they don’t feel scared about being disowned or dismissed as confusion. That the parent understands that’s just who they are, even if they disagree with it, and all they ask is your acceptance. It’s a long way to go until that day will come.

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An Exploring of Sexuality

Being bisexual to me is feeling like I’m lying to my friends and family because I’m not straight like they think I am, but not feeling like I have the right to “come out” because I’m not gay enough.

It’s like the world thinks “straight passing privilege” is a good thing. I don’t want people to think I’m straight because that’s not accurate. But I feel like the world is telling me, “No, you don’t experience anywhere near the same oppression as gay people, so you don’t have anything to complain about. You’ve got no reason to make a fuss about your sexuality. If you were REALLY queer you could come out, but you’re only half gay. Don’t take the spotlight away from the important issues.”

I remember when I was in middle school and my best friend’s mom was talking about her niece, who liked both men and women sexually. She spoke in a negative tone about it, saying things like, “She’s just trying to shake things up. You’re one or the other. There is no both.” This coming from a woman who made it a point to teach her kids acceptance of others and tolerance of homosexuality. This really stuck with me, because in that moment I felt like the little progress I had made to discovery my sexuality was thwarted. I thought, “Then I must be a gay, because I do experience attraction to men.” Obviously, not the full story.

This made me feel like an impostor for years. If I’m a gay, why do I have a crush on that girl? I must actually be straight. But if I’m straight, why do I want to ask that boy out?

Now that I’m older and I’ve dated both men and women, I can emphatically say that my friend’s mom was right, there is no “both.”

This is because there are more than two sexualities!

I am not a mixture of gay and straight. I am one thing: bisexual.

I am real.

I am sure.

I won’t “decide eventually” because it was never a decision in the first place. If you know that gay people don’t choose to be born gay, why would you think that bisexual people will choose a sexuality?

Why do I feel like I have to be gay to come out as anything but straight?


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Dear Straight Girls

who say “I wish I was a lesbian”: do you have any idea how insensitive that is? the shame girls who like girls grow up feeling, the secret that eats away at us when we can’t be open about who we’re in love with, which is supposed to be a happy thing, because we’re afraid our friends and family will turn their backs on us. I know you think it’s fun and cute that we get to do “girl stuff” together but it is incredibly frustrating the way you take the struggle of living in a homophobic world so lightly. society is barely just taking steps to protect our rights and in many countries in the world, we can’t even hold hands without being thrown into prison for “disseminating gay propaganda” (Russia). We didn’t choose to be this way but we should feel nothing but happiness about who we are, we want to have the ability to be proud about the person we love just like straight people can, without having to look around before kissing our partners on the cheek because we’re terrified of being outed to family members or being harassed by straight men on the street.Half straight and half gay is not accepted always. Please just be more mindful of the things you say, because every single time I hear that it makes me cringe.

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Ways To Come Out

Have you ever been misunderstood of your sexuality?Have you ever been afraid of coming out?I think it must have confused many gays,lesbians,bisexuals and other lgbt people before.But as time going on,there are more and more open-minded people,and homosexual,bisexual and other transgender are accepted more.And many bi-curious show up.But sometimes,even to find a people as them is not easy,if not tell,you may not figure out who is lgbt. And many people may not be aware of their real sexuality,so they need try to explore it.

Coming out may be a good way to distinguish them,but sometimes especially when people around you are not that open-minded,it may be not easy to do so.And in some people's eyes,it's weird to see men seeking men and women seeking women when they are just pursuing their happiness.

Coming out to friends and family

It is a confusing and daunting prospect for some people since, for some people, there’s still a stigma attached to certain labels. Aside from the potential risks some people may face, it’s often a question of how you should go about it. If you’ve got no ideas or are lacking some, you might find this useful.

"I used several ways to come out. Most of the time I simply told the person or it was brought up casually in a conversation. Since all the important people in my life know now, I am more blase about it. There’s always a point in your life when you simply give up hiding things. Whether that’s something like admitting that you secretly have Britney Spears posters in your room or whether you have some bigger, darker secret that’s hiding in your closet (pun intended), it is universally agreed that some things are ‘better out than in’."

Writing a note, letter or a posted note.

It’s a good way to come out if you are nervous or hesitant to. It’s fairly casual and it may be helpful if you feel that you cannot simply just say it.

Making a video.

Sometimes it’s easier to express what you like when you are not directly facing someone. This is particularly a good idea if you want to say this to someone who you do not see regularly, perhaps due to a long distance, or if you are very nervous about coming out.

Making a casual joke.

Puns are fantastic! If you can’t think of any, there’s always an abundance of puns on the Internet. This blog (x) is one of my favourites for puns. The other day, I used “I am 50% gay” as a way to come out. This obviously isn’t always a good way to come out but in that context, the person understood what I was trying to say.

Slipping it into a conversation.

Being casual normalises it more so if you want it to be undramatic, then you could consider this. Simply mentioning that you find someone attractive or you like someone of a different gender might allow you to come out without planning it extensively. A friend I have recently made did this and it was not only low-key but it got the message across nicely.

Asking a hypothetical question.

Dropping some hints is easier than being direct if you are nervous. It also works well if you are trying to come out to one person at a time. Asking hypothetical questions is good to open up a conversation. It’s best to do this at a time when the person in question is unoccupied.

Just say it.

Whether it’s having a serious conversation or simply saying “grandma, I’m bisexual”, being honest and open with people you care about is one of the best ways to come out. It shows you are proud and sure of your identity. If you are feeling brave and confident about coming out, this may be the best way to come out. It helps to be calm as it also doesn’t worry the other person.

End note: You should only think of coming out if you are ready to and you feel safe. DO NOT force yourself to. Your happiness and will is important!

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What A Bisexual Man Thinks About It

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Even though I've already come out and open about my sexuality to anyone who asks.
I've struggled with my sexuality since 7th grade.
I am currently a student in college.

I'm bisexual,right.

This means that I have the ability to possibly be attracted to two (“bi”) genders, or sometimes more (which may overlap into pansexuality, but I'm not getting into that). In my case, I can be attracted to biological females, nonbinary individuals, and I am still working out whether I am only romantically attracted to biological males, I'm not sure. See, still figuring things out.

But for some reason, people still think it concerns them and affects their lives whether or not a person is in the LGBTQ+ community.

Some of my least favorite things I've been told by people, directly and indirectly as well as intentionally and unintentionally.

-Bisexual people are unfaithful —I am one of the most faithful people I know. I cannot fathom being unfaithful in a relationship, knowing how that could hurt someone and ruin everything.

-Bisexuality isn't real —I exist, damn it. I am valid. Do not tell me I am not real. I am not invisible. How would you like to be told that you don't exist?

-Bisexual people will never be able to keep a relationship —thanks for that, so I'll die alone?

-Bisexuality is a phase —I've known I'm bisexual since I was 13 or 14. I've wondered here and there if I was gay, but no. I came to the conclusion years ago that I am bi, and that has yet to change. Long phase, huh?

-Bisexual people are confused —am I? That's weird. I don’t feel confused. Maybe you know more about me than I do, thanks very much. What would I do without you?

-“So you want both?” —no, I want someone. One person. Their gender doesn't matter. Bisexual is not synonymous with polymerise

-And the almighty —"Choose one" —How could I "choose"? If I could choose my sexuality, don't you think I'd choose to be straight? It would've made my life a hell of a lot easier, earlier in life and now. No, I can't choose who I'm attracted to. Sorry to burst your ignorant bubble.

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