Showing posts with label lesbian. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lesbian. Show all posts

Thursday, October 29, 2015

It Is Not Terrible To Be Bisexual


Bisexual is not terrible. According to a friend, "you are half of all the people, but I am the one who is in the whole." If your partner happens to be a bisexual, in fact, you should feel lucky: he or she has so many choices, but he /she still only chooses you, you are obviously more important than the average person for him/her.

Bisexual is a sexual orientation, they can not only love a man, but also love a woman . It is not a thing to have their own identity. In other words, the bisexual people, their own identity, can be a man, as well as a woman, can also be bisexual, but also other more. According to this year's the gender options inside of updated face book, people on their own identity, you can have as many as 56 choices. It does not include the gay, lesbian or bisexual,and so on.

Because you like what kind of person, not means you are what kind of person. You can identify yourself as a man who like a woman, or a man, or both men and women, or to any person are not consistent. Facebook of this approach, it sounds a bit complicated, so that a sudden fall into chaos. But why not a liberation for those who have not been able to classify themselves as "men" or "women".


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Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Voice of A Bisexual Woman


Honestly I can’t really say I came out because I never felt like I was in? I’ve liked girls since 2nd grade, boys around 5th or 6th grade. I liked girls first, I didn’t think it was a big deal,lesbian was ok for me. I remember learning the term bisexual in 6th grade and saying that was what I was, which I still am now. I wasn’t confused, I wasn’t raised to believe in heteronormative, I wasn’t “brainwashed straight” at a young age. I was around TV shows with straight couples, and family and family friends who were straight, but I didn’t process that as the norm. To me, the norm was that’s who they love. I knew that girls could like girls, boys could like boys, or any can like any. I knew since I was 7. Hell I knew I was trans when I was that young. I didn’t like the term tomboy because it felt like an insult. That I acted like a boy because that’s what I felt I was, but they still say I’m a girl. It was an insult to me that they would be so ignorant to keep claiming I’m a girl and “just being a tomboy” when I wanted everyone to think of me as who I was inside, not outside. I was also around a very homophobic father and an “I don’t care as long as they keep it to themselves and know what they’re getting into” mother and sister. My father dismissed the fact I’ve known since I was 7 and doesn’t want me dead for being open about it. My mother just hopes I’m happy though she prefers I marry a man. My sister doesn’t care because it’s not her place to meddle in. I’ve learned to ignore them all and keep to myself, especially my dad. So I guess I never really was in, because I never felt like I had to come out. I was never scared to openly admit it, I suppose. I hope other kids and teens grow up feeling the same, not feeling scared to be themselves, and never being afraid of people judging them, especially their own parents/family. I hope kids and teens grow up with understanding parents so that when they do openly say what they are, they don’t feel scared about being disowned or dismissed as confusion. That the parent understands that’s just who they are, even if they disagree with it, and all they ask is your acceptance. It’s a long way to go until that day will come.


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Monday, October 26, 2015

Dear Straight Girls


who say “I wish I was a lesbian”: do you have any idea how insensitive that is? the shame girls who like girls grow up feeling, the secret that eats away at us when we can’t be open about who we’re in love with, which is supposed to be a happy thing, because we’re afraid our friends and family will turn their backs on us. I know you think it’s fun and cute that we get to do “girl stuff” together but it is incredibly frustrating the way you take the struggle of living in a homophobic world so lightly. society is barely just taking steps to protect our rights and in many countries in the world, we can’t even hold hands without being thrown into prison for “disseminating gay propaganda” (Russia). We didn’t choose to be this way but we should feel nothing but happiness about who we are, we want to have the ability to be proud about the person we love just like straight people can, without having to look around before kissing our partners on the cheek because we’re terrified of being outed to family members or being harassed by straight men on the street.Half straight and half gay is not accepted always. Please just be more mindful of the things you say, because every single time I hear that it makes me cringe.


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Sunday, October 25, 2015

Why You Should Choose BisexualMeet.net

The reason to choose BisexualMeet.net as your favorite dating site:

  • Free to Join 
Now,  it's free to sign up on the site,you can make many friends just as other social network sites.  And the most important difference from other social network sites is we can not only help you find friends but  also find your match effectively.  
  •  Bi Date Ideas
We provide you many ideas about dating.If you don't know how to date,we have many wonderful ideas for you,and you will enjoy dating with others soon.And you won't worry about your date any more.We provide service not only for bisexual,but also all lgbt people,so just be relaxed to join us.
  • Latest Activity
We have many information of latest activities,and we'll organize many activities regularly.You can choose ones you are interested in to join,and you will have much fun.
  • Email & Wink
When you are on the inner page of the website,you can draw others attention to you by wink,and you will get response soon.When you are not on the site,we are thoughtful to inform you the information by email. That's convenient and effective.
  • Search Verified Members
You can search your satisfied match according to your requirements,and the members on the site are all verified,you can rest assured that you are  using the site safely and without disturb.
  • Verification & Highlighting
We have strict verification to assure that the people sign up are real and with good will instead of with bad purpose.When you signed up,we will check and test your account to assure safety.So you don't need to worry about your information security.

  • Free $100 Verification Package
We provide free signing up,but put a verification system for package assembly function to insure you have a best experience for every user.All we want is to provide you a wonderful platform to make friends and find your love.
  • Meet Local Singles
When you signing up,we have many choices for you,just help you find your satisfied ones sooner,and you can choose what you like and the system will recommend according to your information and requirements.And in order to let you find your favorite more effective,the system will recommend local singles,couples and bi-curious for you first.If you don't like,you can modify your city and country to find more whenever and wherever.
  • Fashion Show
We hold fashion shows always,and you can meet and chat them for recommendation.And fashion show is a way to make people together so that you can meet each other and according to your will to know more about each other,even hook up if you like.
  • First Bisexual Experiences
Maybe you are bi-curious,and you are first here.Maybe you have many questions and wonders about real bisexual,and want to know more about them but a little afraid.Just don't worry,we have rich experience to answer your questions and lead you to a right way of exploring your sexuality.And lots of bisexual people are here ready for leading and helping you.We will give you an unforgettable first experience.
  • Bisexual Advice
We provide bisexual advice,too.If you need,we'll spare no effort to help and give you a satisfying advice.No matter what you want to know,we'll try our best to make suggestions.
  • Forum & Blog
It's not just a dating site,but also a forum to every lgbt people.You can talk about anything here,and speak your voice,there is the haven for you.All you need here is to relax yourself and enjoy life as lgbt.And we provide function of blog,you can use it just as other blog,just the same.
  • News & Videos
We push news everyday,and you can choose what you like to read.Breaking news,Entertainment news,Social news,Bisexual specialist,and so on.We  dig over many lgbt news for you everyday to make you know much about lgbt all over the world.We have variety of videos on site,too.You can find many kinds of videos,and get to know lgbt more and know many knowledge you didn't know before.
  • Greeting Cards
We provide greeting cards for you to improve your opportunity of successful dating.We have kinds of templet,so that you can choose what you like and you can disign yourself,it's interesting and meaningful.And if you find your match,we'll send you greeting cards on your anniversary to give you surprise.
  • Successful Dating Advice & Safety Tips (1,100+)
We have thousands of successful dating examples,you can learn and even do better than them.You can get success soon when you join us,and you'll find your right match to live a better life.There are more than thousands safety tips for you,you can learn and get those fast.
  • And more...
We have many advantages to wait your explore and you can find fault with us to make us better to your satisfying.We prepare many gifts for you to make suggestions for us and introduce the site to your friends if you like it.

By the way,the site sometimes will be warned as unsafe or pornographic websites,please ignore it,and when you use it,you'll find it's wonderful.And don't be entangled with your age,if you like,just sign up and make friends,friends are no matter age and gender.

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Ways To Come Out

Have you ever been misunderstood of your sexuality?Have you ever been afraid of coming out?I think it must have confused many gays,lesbians,bisexuals and other lgbt people before.But as time going on,there are more and more open-minded people,and homosexual,bisexual and other transgender are accepted more.And many bi-curious show up.But sometimes,even to find a people as them is not easy,if not tell,you may not figure out who is lgbt. And many people may not be aware of their real sexuality,so they need try to explore it.

Coming out may be a good way to distinguish them,but sometimes especially when people around you are not that open-minded,it may be not easy to do so.And in some people's eyes,it's weird to see men seeking men and women seeking women when they are just pursuing their happiness.


Coming out to friends and family

It is a confusing and daunting prospect for some people since, for some people, there’s still a stigma attached to certain labels. Aside from the potential risks some people may face, it’s often a question of how you should go about it. If you’ve got no ideas or are lacking some, you might find this useful.
"I used several ways to come out. Most of the time I simply told the person or it was brought up casually in a conversation. Since all the important people in my life know now, I am more blase about it. There’s always a point in your life when you simply give up hiding things. Whether that’s something like admitting that you secretly have Britney Spears posters in your room or whether you have some bigger, darker secret that’s hiding in your closet (pun intended), it is universally agreed that some things are ‘better out than in’."
Writing a note, letter or a posted note.

It’s a good way to come out if you are nervous or hesitant to. It’s fairly casual and it may be helpful if you feel that you cannot simply just say it.

Making a video.

Sometimes it’s easier to express what you like when you are not directly facing someone. This is particularly a good idea if you want to say this to someone who you do not see regularly, perhaps due to a long distance, or if you are very nervous about coming out.

Making a casual joke.

Puns are fantastic! If you can’t think of any, there’s always an abundance of puns on the Internet. This blog (x) is one of my favourites for puns. The other day, I used “I am 50% gay” as a way to come out. This obviously isn’t always a good way to come out but in that context, the person understood what I was trying to say.

Slipping it into a conversation.

Being casual normalises it more so if you want it to be undramatic, then you could consider this. Simply mentioning that you find someone attractive or you like someone of a different gender might allow you to come out without planning it extensively. A friend I have recently made did this and it was not only low-key but it got the message across nicely.

Asking a hypothetical question.

Dropping some hints is easier than being direct if you are nervous. It also works well if you are trying to come out to one person at a time. Asking hypothetical questions is good to open up a conversation. It’s best to do this at a time when the person in question is unoccupied.

Just say it.

Whether it’s having a serious conversation or simply saying “grandma, I’m bisexual”, being honest and open with people you care about is one of the best ways to come out. It shows you are proud and sure of your identity. If you are feeling brave and confident about coming out, this may be the best way to come out. It helps to be calm as it also doesn’t worry the other person.

End note: You should only think of coming out if you are ready to and you feel safe. DO NOT force yourself to. Your happiness and will is important!

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Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Why Bisexual Not Known Much

As to bisexual,many people might not know or even not have heard it.Actually,bi exists a long time,but there must be some reasons make it not known to public.In my opinion,not many bis come out is the important reason.But why they wouldn't come out?
everyone like beautiful things
Reason 1:some people may not realize .When they like the person with same sex,they may think it just because they have good friendship.
Reason 2:When someone find him/her like both men and women,they are scared,due to the lack of universal knowledge,they would think it too embarrassed to tell others.So if they hide their emotion deep,no one knows their bisexual features.
Reason 3:In the society,most people are heterosexuals,once someone realize him/her a bisexual,they may feel like them monster because they are different from others.So they won't admit their bisexual identify even hate it to be a bi. 
Reason 4:When people admit his/her a bisexual,many people think it weird ,they can not understand it even feel antipathy to it.They would keep bis away,ignore what their feeling and even discredit them everywhere,which hurt them deep.
Reason 5:Most bis are burn with it,they have no choice to be bi.But if there are not many people support them,they don't dare to come out.They may receive much education about heterosexual instead of bisexual in their growth,so it's hard for them to find someone to know more about it and understand it.
As time going on,gay and lesbian are accepted by plenty of people,why can't them accept bisexual?Everyone has the right to choose the right person to live with,please give more care to them.